Getting a girl’s attention is one thing, but getting her number is another altogether. You can of course step up your game by looking the part and using an irresistible men’s fragrance, your wit and your natural charm. But because one night on the town is not the same as another and every club and bar is different, besides looking and smelling great you’ll also need to incorporate a variation of ‘getting-her-number’ techniques in your weapon of mass seduction. Here are some great tips for landing her digits Balim.
1. Be Mysterious and intrigue her
An important aspect of your quest to get her number is generating intrigue that will hopefully lead to that sought-after phone call. Being mysterious about something she wants to know more about, for instance, is a great way to create intrigue. You could for instance try to become more personal by guessing which perfume she’s wearing and getting her to guess your fragrance. Whatever you do, grab and keep her interest throughout your conversation, and don’t lay all your cards on the table immediately.
2. Leave a conversation unfinished
This tip hardly ever fails. It does however require some talent and charm and you need to be enthralling. Dedicate time to the girl. Choose a topic that she enjoys chatting about. Get her animated, even a bit emotional so that you can employ your tact and your gentle touch but be careful not to push her over the edge by selecting an offensive topic. Avoid religion or politics. Instead, talk about her favourite music or movie. Get her to the point where she feels she wants to chat to you more and she will most probably ask you to call her the next day.
3. You really have to go because…
A good time to start chatting to a girl is when it’s getting close to the end of the night and people start to leave. There will probably be a scenario where your friends want to go and you need to go with them, limiting your time to chat with her. Use this to your advantage by sparking her interest, then saying that you would love to chat to her all night long but that you really have to go. If you’ve swept her off her feet, she’ll give you her number for sure.
4. Ask her out on a date